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My name is Courtney Boylan, and I am the newest member of PPI-ME! I officially started working with PeacePlayers a little over two weeks ago, and I wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself and tell you how I was able to get involved with such an amazing organization, where in the coming year, I will be providing support to coaches in Jerusalem and the north.
Originally I am from Minnesota, “Land of 10,000 lakes”, but I have also lived in Maryland, Michigan, Kentucky, and Indiana. I attended college at the University of Michigan, where I majored in Sport Management and was a 4-year letter winner on the basketball team. Choosing to go to school so far from home was one of the hardest decisions of my life, but it proved to be the best decision I’ve ever made.
At Michigan, I was able to earn a degree at one of the greatest Universities in the world while playing basketball in one of the toughest conferences in the country (The Big Ten). I made countless memories and friendships that will last a lifetime, and most importantly: I fell in love. I met Stuart Douglass my first day on campus my freshman year at Michigan, and we have been dating ever since (over 6 years now). The reason I bring this up, and why he is so important in talking about my journey to the Middle East and working for PeacePlayers, is because he is the reason that I am even living in Israel.
After college, I was fortunate enough to get a job as a Division 1 Assistant Coach at Northern Kentucky University, and Stuart set his sights on playing professional basketball. Since last year, Stuart has been playing professionally in Israel, and after two years apart, we decided that the following season I would join him in Israel!
It was such an exciting time for the both of us to finally be together, but it was also very scary. I had to leave my job as an assistant coach, and my friends and family were very concerned about me living in country going through so much conflict, much of which I didn’t even understand myself. But, what I did know was that I wanted to stay involved with basketball.
One of my Sport Management professors at the University of Michigan, who is Jewish-American and has family living in Israel, was the one who told me about PeacePlayers International. After he told me about PPI and I did some research, I knew that I wanted to join them in their mission. PPI isn’t just about basketball; it’s about educating and inspiring children from areas of conflict to create a more peaceful world.
As a player and coach I saw first hand how sport, specifically basketball, could be used as a tool to bring so many different types of people together. Basketball has given and taught me so much: discipline, respect, acceptance, self-worth, humility, friendships, mentors, love… and the list could go on. I am extremely excited to be apart of something so special with PPI and hopefully I can pass on some of the things I have learned to members of PeacePlayers.
What I have found out already, in my short time with PPI, is how much I am going to learn. Before coming to Israel, I really didn’t know much about the conflict going on here. I had no idea how big of a deal it really is to have Arabs and Jews playing together on the same team, and not only that, but becoming friends. These players break down countless years of prejudice, fighting, and history, and it is basketball that is bringing them together.
Name: Shawna Walsh
From: Boston, Massachusetts USA
College: Boston University, BA International Relations
M. Phil Conflict Resolution & Reconciliation Candidate- Trinity College Dublin, Irish School of Economics
AAU and MetroWest Basketball player, Best Defender Sarah Behn Basketball Camp, Algonquin Regional High School Soccer, Basketball and Softball (ASA League Softball Pitcher, ODP and Premier League Soccer Member) and MVP Varsity Softball
What interested me about PeacePlayers:
Growing up playing three sports (soccer, softball and of course, basketball), I always saw the power in the formation of a team. You find yourself building friendships with people you wouldn’t necessarily have associated with before and form a bond through learning and training. PeacePlayers gives kids the chance to play and interact with others they wouldn’t have necessarily ever met and in an open facilitated platform. In particular, I am most excited to meet these kids, learn from them, and to help create a safe environment for them to learn one of my favorite games!
I came to Belfast to study Conflict Resolution and Reconciliation in what is considered to be a transitioning society. I wanted to be a part of the transformation process through sports because it is an amazing opportunity. Youth will play such a critical role in maintaining peace in Northern Ireland and allowing kids to form a common bond will only help enable change in their communities. The power of our youth cannot be underestimated as a vehicle for change!
Facilitation & Coaching Experience:
My first facilitation experience post university was with the Global Young Leaders Conference which brought high school students from over 100 countries to Washington, DC and New York to learn cross-cultural communication, leadership skills and strategies in international diplomacy, security and development. The program was life-changing seeing these students grow and learn in just 12 days, making friends across continents and taking on civic leadership roles within their communities!
Having spent the past few years working on a contract with the U.S. Agency for International Development (USAID), I have seen first hand that capacity-building in the form of facilitated retreats has proven to be pivotal in helping the overall effectiveness of the development work that is carried out all over the world. Working with teams in an office environment surprisingly has a lot of similarities to what you discover within sports teams such as; the importance of inclusion, diversity, playing on individual members’ strengths and mitigating weaknesses to maximize opportunities as well as the “flow” of work and strategy. I’m hoping that my professional background in facilitation, team-building and leadership development will be helpful in my work as a seasonal coach and as a small part of the very energetic PeacePlayers Team during my time here in Belfast.
Fun Facts: I am…
a UN Nerd, a Boston Sports Fan and all that entails, majorly clumsy and own it, an overly obsessive aunt, a twin, and only slightly awkward.
In today’s blog, Fellow Bryan Franklin reflects on an emotional game at Moses Mabhida Stadium this past weekend.
The news swept across South Africa as violently as the Durban wind in October. On 25 October 2014, Orlando Pirates and Bafana Bafana’s (SA’s national soccer team) goalkeeper and captain was shot and later died after a robbery of his girlfriend’s house.
This wasn’t supposed to be how the story ended. Like so many kids PPI works with, Senzo Meyiwa grew up in Umlazi. While in Secondary School his coach at the time scraped enough money together to take him and a few teammates up to the Orlando Pirates Youth Academy tryout. Meyiwa immediately impressed and went on to play for the club at the junior level, the U-17 National team and made his debut for the senior level Pirates team in 2006. Up until this point , Meyiwa had lead Bafana Bafana to a first place ranking in its AfCon qualifying group, having yet to surrender a goal.
This past Saturday, three weeks after their captain and goalkeeper had passed away, Bafana Bafana took to the field with a chance to qualify for the Africa Cup of Nations for the first time since 2008. In honour of their late captain, the match was moved to Moses Mabhida Stadium in Durban.
From the moment I entered the stadium, the emotion and intensity hit me. Posters had been made to honour their fallen leader, and in an experience unlike any other I had been a part of, the stadium joined together for South Africa’s National Anthem. The Anthem in itself has special meaning to the rainbow country. Adopted in 1997, South Africa’s National Anthem employ the five mostly widely spoken of SA’s eleven official languages—Xhosa, Zulu, Sesotho, Afrikaans, and English. It’s a beautiful representation of a country made up of different backgrounds coming together as one.
A moment of silence followed the anthem. It was to be the last silence of the afternoon, as right from the beginning, Bafana Bafana jumped all over its Sudanese opponent, scoring twice in the first half. Sudan came out strong following the break, threatening multiple times before finally bringing the spread back to one goal with 20 minutes to play. Bafana Bafana’s defense held strong however, and the final whistle blew with a score of South Africa 2 – 1 Sudan.
As the stadium erupted in cheer and the jumbotron flashed: “congratulations South Africa, qualified for the Afcon for the first time since 2008”, there was no question who this victory was for. The game, and the afternoon were another example of a now famous quote made by Nelson Mandela at the Laureus Sport for Good Awards:
“Sport has the power to change the world. It has the power to inspire. It has the power to unite people in a way that little else does. It speaks to youth in a language they understand. Sport can create hope where once there was only despair.”
In his first blog post, new Communications and Development Intern, Matthew Agar, explains how he aims to live a life in the service of peace as part of PeacePlayers International. Matthew is a junior in American University’s School of International Service in Washington, DC.
The famous rock n’ roller John Lennon once eloquently said, “Imagine all the people living life in peace”. When John sang these words, he dreamed of a world without divisions; he envisioned for a world without borders; he yearned for an end to religious, ethnic, and national strife, and he flirted with the possibility of a world without material possessions. John Lennon spent most of the last few years of his life imagining such a world. I want to make it.
My name is Matthew Agar. I am a 20-year old American Jew from Old Bethpage, New York. I study International Studies, Arabic Language, and Economics at American University in Washington, DC. In my studies, I focus on Peace and Conflict Resolution and the Middle East. While my academic experience seems to be enough information to know I am in the business of peace, what I do outside the classroom shows that I am also living life for peace.
So, what does it mean to live life for peace? Living life for peace has three parts: being at peace with the world, living life in peace with the world, and giving life to peace in the world. Each part holds a special place in my psyche that provides meaning to the work I do inside and outside of PeacePlayers.
First, in order to be at peace with the world, I need to help others. As the new Communications and Development Intern at PeacePlayers International, I feel I am doing my part in healing the wounds of the world (Tikkun Olam in Hebrew) one small step at a time. Sure, the work is not glamorous, but it goes a long way to helping PeacePlayers transform the lives of individuals for the better around the world.
Second, in order to live in peace with the world, I need to work towards bridging the divides that separate me from others. Within PeacePlayers, it means supporting the building of connections between different races and religions in Northern Ireland, South Africa, Cyprus and the Middle East. Beyond PeacePlayers, it means unleashing peoples’ inner angels through interfaith dialogue as Chief Operations Officer of the non-governmental organization International Peace Quest Institute. The constant piece of my work with both organizations is the need to forgive, forget, and unite with past enemies.
Third, in order to give life to peace in the world, I need to have fun. In my spare time, I have fun by playing basketball, practicing boxing, singing, and writing poetry. One of the most fun jobs I have ever had is in my current role as an after-care counselor for Janney Elementary School in Washington, DC. I get to play games and sports with young children and my co-workers; what is more fun than that! Judging by the fun, witty banter of Adam, Taylor, and Gunnar at PeacePlayers Headquarters my first week as an intern, I can already tell that this opportunity will be my coolest gig yet.
Operation’s Team Leader Debbie Byrne shares on how Super Twinning’s are vitally important to the work of PPI in Northern Ireland.
Over the last couple of weeks PPI-NI ran two Super Twinning’s – one for children in West Belfast and one for children from North Belfast. What are Super Twinning’s? It is a basketball tournament where children from the twinned primary schools from that area of the city get together and compete against each other.
The West Belfast Super Twinning happened on Wednesday the 22nd of October and had to happen in two parts because of the number amount of children we had in each of the schools. West Belfast Coordinator Casey Tryon was delighted with how the day went. On arrival one of the children was disappointed that their twinning partner could not come; she said “but we can’t do it without them”. The little girl was happy again when she found out she was able to twin with another school for the day.
On the 7th of November we had the North Belfast Super Twinning. Again, it was another fun filled, competitive day. Coordinator Joanne Fitzpatrick again organized a wonderful day and the kids went away with red faces and huge smiles. One of the best things for me on the day was that my team won!
Super Twinning’s are a lot of hard work. It takes a lot of logistical organization and we need a lot of coaches to make it work. However, it is absolutely worth the effort! The children who come take on a whole new identity as they compete with the school they twin with against other twinned schools. They cheer on other teams who are part of their twinning and become one united, integrated team. Bridging divides, uniting communities and developing leaders who make a difference in their communities is what we are all about at PPI-NI.
The Super Twinning’s are a great example of the progress that is being made in establishing a new sense of shared community and identity in historically divided areas. My favorite quote from the day I picked up as one child was leaving the Super Twinning. I overheard one girl say to her friends “it’s not about the winning but it’s about taking part”. How true!!
This past week, Cyprus LDP participant Dimitris Charalambos traveled to Doha Qatar for a week and represented PeacePlayers International at the Doha Goals conference. He speaks about his experience and how he is proud to be a part of an organization like PeacePlayers.
Hello everyone! My name is Dimitris Charalambous and I am one of the Greek-Cypriot members of PeacePlayers International-Cyprus. I have been a part of the organization for two years now, but I am not planning to ever stop being a part. I love this organization because it unites Greek-Cypriots with Turkish-Cypriots by doing what we all love, playing basketball!
First time I heard about PeacePlayers was when a friend came up to me and told me I should come to free trainings in my village, so I decided why not go there. When I learned what PeacePlayers is all about I got really into it because I believe we need to live in peace with the north side of Cyprus. We are all the same no matter what religion or country you are from.
Last month Peaceplayers contacted me and told me I could apply to go to a program called Doha Goals in Doha, Qatar. I applied and I got accepted to go there. The way I saw it is that I am going there to represent PeacePlayers. I am not going for vacation because PeacePlayers are the ones who gave me this opportunity. When I arrived at Doha for Doha-Goals, I arrived with a different group of Cypriots who I never met before but I become really good friends with them. That did not stop me from making new friends from all over the world with people from America, Africa, Luxemburg, Greece, Nigeria, and from many other countries.
When I told people about PeacePlayers they really liked the idea of the organization and they also shared with me things that they do to stop racism in their country or any other problems they have. By talking with all these people I realized that we are not the only ones who want peace in their country and all over the world. Also, we listened to a lot of debates that talked about sport that were very inspiring. So a big THANK YOU to PeacePlayers International-Cyprus for asking me to apply. I learned many things from this trip like problems other countries are facing and how they are trying to bring peace in their country as we are trying in Cyprus and it inspired me to keep going and never stop. Again, thank you for giving me this opportunity and I will never stop supporting PeacePlayers.
On October 6, 30 Israeli and Palestinian youth basketball coaches from PeacePlayers International - Middle East visited the USA for a two-week cultural exchange supported by the U.S. Department of State’s SportsUnited Program. The exchange was the culmination of a two year in-country Leadership Development Program to facilitate a cadre of young Palestinian and Israeli coaches who will work together through sports. After returning home, Neta Daniel, a member of PPI’s All-Stars team which recently won the Israeli National Championship, reflected on her time in America.
Hi. I’m Neta Daniel, 18, from Jerusalem, and I’ve been in PeacePlayers for four years. Right now, I’m part of the Leadership Development Program, and I play for the Jerusalem All-Stars [integrated league teams].
Last month we got back from a two-week trip from the U.S., which were two weeks that I will remember for the rest of my life. I’d waited for this trip all year, and at every LDP meeting, we’d talk about what would take place there, prepared for the encounters we would have, and mostly dreamed about what it would be like.
All of this excitement was cut short by the events of this past summer. For anyone who doesn’t know, we didn’t have the easiest summer. The Israeli-Palestinian conflict stretched beyond their usual boundaries and became closer to us than ever, as people close to us were hurt, and every few days there was a siren [in Jerusalem], after which we had to run to the shelters.
When it came to the flight, this crazy period had calmed down a bit, but I flew with mixed feelings. I felt that, on the one hand, the fact that we are all flying together shows that our friendship is strong, but on the other hand, I wasn’t sure just how strong, and I was afraid that the situation would be undermined and change, and that being in the U.S. would destroy [our friendships] even more.
I was wrong. In America, I learned to what extent the friendships that I formed in PPI are strong, profound and capable of resisting extreme circumstances such as those we experienced in the summer.
Our friendships only became stronger in the U.S., and every day, I felt like I learned new things about my Arab friends, and about myself, whether it was a conversation we had on the subway or while waiting in line for a ride at Six Flags, a conversation with people from the PeacePlayers board, or even just a conversation before going to sleep – all of these experiences and little conversations are what made this trip a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
The trip was so packed with so many events and meetings. The fun experiences like Six Flags, shopping, an NBA game, accompanied experiences like the activity at the Nationals Youth Baseball Academy, where we ran an activity for elementary school kids, and the visit to the White House, and visits to the homes of the amazing and special people, each of whom have a special connection to PPI.
At all of these events, I met people like Mark and Marty Tuohey, Evan Ryan, Ron Shapiro, The Lipman Family, R.C Buford, Dr. Chad Ford, Brian Kriftcher, Win Sheridan and many more people, every single one of whom inspired me. Every one of them gave me faith in what we are doing in PeacePlayers. Each one gave me motivation to continue to believe in the particular way that I chose to play basketball. Each one of these people made me understand how important and significant this activity, which seems to us so ordinary – playing basketball together – can change awareness, perception, a human being and an entire family.
This week’s blog is written by Coach Yamkela (Yam) Nako. Yam has been coaching for PPI for five years, and is one of our hardest working coaches. He’s an incredible student of the game, and has a deep passion to not only see his players become better basketball players, but better people as well.
Hi everyone, coach Yamkela (a.k.a “the man”, “coach Phil”, “the bally in Wentiez”) here. I am currently the coach at Assegai Primary School and the high school coach for PPI’s LDP in Wentworth, Durban.
Firstly I would like to thank everyone from PeacePlayers for a great year of basketball. 2014 was another great coaching year that gave me the opportunity to change and develop lives of players in one of the coolest communities I’ve ever had the chance to work in—Wentworth. I would also like to thank all the parents and the best school rep anyone could ask for, Miss Leroux Webster. Thank you to the PPI Staff and fellows. We said
goodbye to two good fellows Kristin and Kyler, cool people from whom I learned a lot, and at the same time welcomed new fellows Bryan Franklin and Ben Constable, an amazing pair of individuals. Finally I would like to thank my players, we experienced highs and lows, both wins and losses that never failed to teach lessons on and off the court.
This year I had the chance to start something that took my coaching to the next level. In April we launched a Wentworth Leadership Development Programme team. It was an amazing opportunity that gave me the chance to teach/coach players that I had previously taught in primary school. One of my former players, Brent, not only played on the LDP team, but also acted as my assistance coach at Assegai. Then there is Nduduzo and his sister Minenhle both of whom I coached in primary school, continue to carry on the family tradition of basketball on the LDP level.
On the primary school level it’s been amazing to see the growth of one of my now best players, Marcus. Marcus is a boy growing up without a father, and is known as the child who misbehaves a lot in school. When he first came to practice at the beginning of the year, he was constantly disruptive, not knowing how to use the energy and skill he possesses. By the end of 4th term he was leading the entire team in drills during practice, and his
maturity and dedication have increased greatly. Then there is my daily inspiration Chloe. Chloe is in grade 5, and is technically too young to be part of the PeacePlayers Programme. But she just wouldn’t take no for an answer. A little under a year later, she not only has the nicest jump shot on the team, but is able to take charge, encourage, motivate and lead her peers, many of whom are older than her. Finally there’s Jade, who as Fellow Bryan Franklin spoke about a few weeks ago, has grown enough to view all races as people. In a quote that comes directly from some of our training in the Anatomy of Peace, “it’s not about the colour of a person skin it’s about their character’”.
When it comes down to it, it’s the kids who make this the best job in the world. I’m honoured to be a coach at PPI, where I get to come to work every day and impact people’s lives.
Today’s blog is brought to you by Cetin Pirlanta, our oldest PPI-CY member and Leadership Development Program participant. He shares his 8 years in the program and what he hopes to do with PeacePlayers in the future. He is the son of legendary PeacePlayers coach, Sevki Pirlanta.
Hi everyone…This is the time for me to share some things about myself and PeacePlayers and why I joined PeacePlayers. So first of all, I would like to introduce my self- I am Cetin and I am 18 years old and I have started my college life this year. I am a Cypriot guy that loves his island very much and expecting peace again this island one day. I have been in this program since It was started so I can easily say that I am the oldest player in this program.
First, when I started this program I was an inexperienced small kid and I was worrying about how to get together with Greek-Cypriot people but now I can easily get talk and play basketball with anyone. This is the one of the values that I learned from PeacePlayers. I am practicing in Iskele (Trikomo). This year I started to coach practices to small basketbal players while also playing with the older kids.
Through PeacePlayers I have learnt how to share, trust, cooperate, and respect everyone, creating friendship and peace. PeacePlayers taught us whatever your religion or language you are talking, it doesn’t matter. The world is small and there are lots of people so we have to live with peace and love to have a great life with great people. Another point for me is having new friends so I will get know another cultures and their countries. PeacePlayers provides us this easily so every one gets to know each others’ cultures from South to North side.
My favorite thing in this program are the Summer Camps. Camps are so joyful and I learn so much from them. At these camps we meet with previous NBA or WNBA players, so this is the biggest adventage for us. By teaching us what they know from their experience and Cypriot coaches teach us many things too. By these camps we will get more experience and meet some new friends. These camps are the reason I met Alexis, a very tall Greek-Cypriot, one my best friend all around the world. We have good conversations and relationship so I can easily trust him with all my heart.
Lastly, I can easily invite everyone to PeacePlayers to have beautiful life and increase your knowledge by great coaches. By the 8 years in this program, from the first year to up now, I became a mature person. I hope that I can become a full time coach for PeacePlayers one day. No life without PeacePlayers-Cyprus. So I want to thank to PPI-Cyprus family to get me this point so I promise that I will improve my self everyday.#itscooltobepeaceplayer as Coach Nicos says!
Northern Ireland has seen it’s fair share of Champions this year; Rory McIlroy won the PGA Championship, Paddy Barnes and Michael Conlon won gold medals in boxing at the Commonwealth Games and Kelly Gallagher won the gold medal in skiing at the Sochi Paralympics earlier this year. We all have our champions that we look up to, but what better champions to admire than our Junior Champions4Peace (C4P)?
Our Junior C4Ps have been very busy over the past few months, organising fundraisers, trips and playing basketball. The group are currently working on trying to raise money for a trip to Brooklyn, NY in October 2015; “Belfast2Brooklyn 2K15”. Through running events such as a Sponsored Onesy Dribble Walk, a Car Wash, Sponsored Shootout as well as our Pie4Peace Challenge, they have raised £1350 so far. The target is £9,000 so we still have a lot of work to do.
Over the next few months the Junior C4Ps will take their learning from the 3 Pillars of Champions4Peace and 10 Champions will travel to Brooklyn to share their knowledge and to learn from their partners at the Necelina McDonald Memorial Foundation. Whilst in Brooklyn, the Champions will run a Game of 3 Halves (GO3H) using Gaelic, rugby and soccer for their partners and support them to run a GO3H event using sports from their community (basketball, baseball and American football). As well as introducing the sports the Champions will share their knowledge of community relations and the part it plays in sport in Northern Ireland. The groups will then discuss their experiences and the similarities and differences between them.
Last weekend, the group discussed why they were part of the group and what they believed a Champion4Peace to be.
Here are some of their answers:
“I’m a C4P because I want to be friends with people from other religions and I would like to be a coach when I’m older. C4P is a programme from PeacePlayers to make the next generation of coaches and to prove to people that Catholics and Protestants can be friends.” Ryan McStravick, 12yrs old.
“A Champion4Peace is a person who has an aim to bring peace between religions and cultures, to take away hate and sectarianism from Belfast. I would like to be a coach when I’m older as from a young age PeacePlayers coaches have been my roles models and I think it would be amazing to bring kids together from different communities.” Aimee McMinn, 14yrs old.
“We could be the next generation of PeacePlayers coaches and by that I mean we could make a change in Northern Ireland, in both communities by showing that it doesn’t matter what religion you are, we’re a team” Niamh McNally, 11yrs old.
These young people are the future, future leaders in their community, future coaches for PeacePlayers, future makers of change and bringers of hope. These young people believe in the possibility of peace in Northern Ireland and want to help make it happen. If you would like to help these kids make their way to Brooklyn to spread the hope of Peace, then please head over to our JustGiving page and make a donation: https://www.justgiving.com/PPI-B2B.
The All-Stars season has officially started! Our joint Palestinian-Israeli teams are challenging the status quo and setting new records by taking their friendships and team spirit into the public sphere by giving all they’ve got to compete in the Israel Basketball Association’s elite youth league. This year, PeacePlayers has six All-Stars teams (including our first boys’ team!), and they are off to a great start.
With the cooperation of Hapo’el Jerusalem, a mens basketball club, PeacePlayers engaged some new boys interested in PeacePlayers’ mission. The introduction of the Jerusalem Boys All-Stars team has come at an important time because tensions are high in Jerusalem due to the increased violence. We hope all our All-Stars teams rise above the difficulties surrounding them by building strong connections and bonds with their teammates.
Since the start of the All-Stars program in 2010, our teams have come a long way, winning the under-18 championship in their division. The start of the All-Stars initiative was a pivotal and groundbreaking move for this region. By taking the concept of ‘twinning’ and making it into a full time pursuit, PeacePlayers created the All-Stars team. The organization recognized the youths’ need for another step in the direction of building communities, breaking down barriers, and advancing basketball skills. And an integrated team does just that. PeacePlayers—Middle East also has taken into account the limited access to organized sports for young girls. In Israel, only about 25 percent of participants in competitive sport are women, a number lower than the average in both the Western world and the world at large. PPI has been filling the void by giving young women the opportunity to take part in competitive league teams. The All Stars teams practice and play together at least three times a week, making them a close-knit community.
“Most people who saw us didn’t understand what we were doing. Their reactions were also different. Sometimes I would hear them praising us for what we are doing and other times I would hear the crowd make racist comments.” – Noy, All Stars team member
When the All Stars program began it didn’t take too much time for word to get around. Having an integrated team, Palestinian and Israeli, makes these players unique. In fact, for the first time Palestinian girls from East Jerusalem played in the Israel Basketball Association Youth League. For most people not associated with the PeacePlayers community having a mixed team was a bit bizarre. Yet, the players didn’t let the audiences’ doubts and bewilderment stop them from reaching the top and even expanding. For Noy, who plays on an All Stars team, her favorite part of playing on a mixed league team is showing people what PeacePlayers is all about. Traveling from city to city, gym to gym means that people, who otherwise wouldn’t, get to witness what PPI is all about.
The beauty of the All-Stars program is that the power and team spirit isn’t only for the team. The crowd gets to witness the harmony and corporation first-hand as well. Fans from both teams watch as their players put aside the conflict and engage in a spirited manner, building true and strong connections. And if the players can do it, so can the crowd.
Each year, PeacePlayers International – South Africa holds City Wide Tournaments in both June and November. The June tournament is carried out with the primary focus of bridging divides. Kids play not with the teammates from their school, but instead are split up amongst their peers to play on teams with learners from different communities and backgrounds. November however is reserved for a classic winner takes all event. In this week’s blog PPI-SA fellow Bryan Franklin reflects on the 24th City Wide Tournament.
The rain was threatening and the calls and texts were flowing in.
“Is the tournament still on?”
“Are we still playing today?”
“Is it raining in Durban?”
And for the more brief at heart, “City Wide?”
But there was something in the air Saturday. It was an aura of excitement, and on this day the rain knew to stay away. Sure there were a few sprinkles here and there, but the down pour held off, until the last 2 minutes of the last game of the afternoon, providing a closing ceremony of sorts.
PPI-SA’s 24th City Wide Tournament was a historic event that for the first time ever saw two teams from outside the PPI programme—NBA Africa and CAST—enter, and a total of eight different communities represented. In addition PPI staff and coaches were assisted by volunteers from We Are Durban throughout the day.
The tournament kicked off bright and early at 8:00AM with a performance from former PPI coach and current rapper/community activist Mhligo. The Primary School teams were then split up into 5 groups of three teams. Each team played each other once with the winner advancing onto a single elimination tournament. Due to some necessary schedule re-structuring because of rain, PPI was forced to cut the field down to four following group play, and launched straight into the semi-finals.
On the girls side, teams from Berea, Carrington, Durban and Sukuma Primary Schools advanced with Berea beating DPS and Carrington beating Sukuma to advance to the finals. As for the boy’s side, Addington, Carrington, Durban Primary School, and NBA Africa advanced. Addington took care of DPS in one semi-final, while Carrington squeaked past NBA Africa in the second to advance to the finals.
In the finals, Carrington looked to complete the City Wide sweep for the first time ever, but fell just short. In an epic girls match-up they pulled ahead early and did not relinquish the lead, holding off Berea to win 14-11.
On the boys side they weren’t so fortunate. Carrington vs Addington is a rivalry that traces back to the years before basketball was even invented, and one that has often been compared to Bulls-Jazz from the 90’s or Heat-Spurs over the last few years. The two schools are separated by a meagre 6 kilometres (3.7 miles), and have consistently been the best teams across the
PPI programme throughout 2014. It was only fitting they would face off for the championship. Addington controlled the first half, jumping out to a commanding lead of 10-2 going into the break. Carrington didn’t have an ounce of quit in them however, and eventually narrowed the lead to just 2 points, before falling 12-8.
As a special treat, the two championship teams were congratulated by coaches and players from the KwaZulu Marlins of he Basketball National League. It was a fitting end to a fantastic year for PeacePlayers International – South Africa. Check back over the next few weeks for news on the LDP portion of City Wide as well as reflections from coaches and volunteers.
PPI-SA would like to give special thanks to the Laureus Sport for Good Foundation and National Lottery for their support of the 24th City Wide Tournament, and continued support PPI-SA’s programmes. PPI-SA would also like to thank Coaching for Hope and SAPREF for their support of the Primary School and Professional Development Programme’s throughout 2014. It is with the help of these supporters, that PeacePlayers International South Africa is able to bridge divides, change perceptions and develop leaders.
This week’s blog is written by Toot Imbar, a member of the Leadership Development Program, the Jerusalem All-Stars, who was one of 24 members of the recent delegation to the United States, supported by SportsUnited – The Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs of the U.S. Department of State.
I joined PeacePlayers a little over three years ago. Like many, I joined for the basketball and stayed because I loved it. I love going to practices, I love the weekend retreats, I love our joint meals and mostly, I love the people. I stayed because all of these reasons, I participated, I enjoyed, but I never understood the true impact it had on my life until this recent summer and the trip to the U.S that came right after it.
This summer has been tense; I remember the first siren we had in Jerusalem. It was around 8 pm, all of my family was home and we all ran down to the shelter. The protocol states you have to stay in the shelter for at least 10 minutes after the sirens. As we were sitting waiting for the ten minutes to end, I got a text message. The message was from my Palestinian friend, Aysha who lives in Beit Safafa, an Arab village in Jerusalem. She wrote: “Toot, are you and your family doing ok?”
You might think this is just a simple text message. It only takes about 30 seconds to write and another five to send. I think, this simple text message, these 35 seconds, can show just how much PeacePlayers has impacted my life, and many other lives. Through PeacePlayers I learned that there is not one side, or even two sides to this conflict, but many. With PeacePlayers we are creating a new side; a side of understanding, of trust, of compassion, of respect. We are creating a side that emphasizes differences and similarities. It’s a side of peace.
I’m not ignorant; I know that things are very complicated, but I also know that it is up to us to make a change. Every time I’m with PeacePlayers I feel like I’m making a change. Whenever our [mixed Palestinian-Israeli] All-Stars team plays a game, or when we visit each other’s houses, and even when we simply play basketball, I can feel change.
Toot makes the last second shot for PPI’s Under 18 All Stars Team, winning the Israeli National League Championship for the Southern Division:
When we went on a trip to the U.S three weeks ago, I could feel this change during almost every moment. I got to know, and to speak to many people who share the PeacePlayers vision. People were very excited to see us, hear from us and support us. These groups of people inspired me to keep working towards our shared mission. Seeing the dedication of Brendan Tuohey, Chad Ford, and Brian Kriftcher towards a vision taught me how much one can accomplish. So many lives are influenced and changed because of their vision.
But I think the most important thing I learned was something that I’ve been struggling with for the past few months. It is the fact that I am lucky. I was born to good parents, I have good friends, and I’m in a good school. I always have food on the table, I’ve never faced real danger, and I was never lacking anything. I am lucky.
During the past few months especially during this summer’s events I was struggling with this luck of mine. How come I get to be safe while others are getting killed, or having their houses blown up, or living in shelters? Am I a bad person for being lucky? Should I be ashamed?
During this trip, I think I understood the answer to this question. I’m not a bad person for being lucky. But I have an obligation that comes with this “luck.” My obligation is to help people who are less lucky; to help spread this “luck” of mine. And that’s what I want to do in life, I don’t know how exactly, but I know that by participating in PeacePlayers I’ve already started to work towards my goal; to make this world, this region a little bit better.
Today’s blog is brought to you by Leadership Development Program participant, Victor Petrov!
Hey guys…This week I just wanted to share with you a few things about myself, tell you about PeacePlayers, and why I love it so much! So my name is Victor “Vic” Petrov, I’m 16 years old, and I’m from Bulgaria. I have been participating in this organization for 3 years now. I’m practicing in Kiti and it is awesome! When I first started at PeacePlayers, I didn’t know much about the organization. I joined only for the love of basketball, but now I’ve learned the real meaning of PeacePlayers, which is respect, team work, friendship, and peace between two different worlds with separate cultures, religions, and ways of life.
I have learned a lot with the help of PeacePlayers International-Cyprus and the support of my coaches and friends. I participated in twinnings and tournaments where I met new people, made new friends, and learned so much from them. At the meetings, we would discuss different themes such as, peace, respect, friendship, and lots of other things that will help us in the future. One great experience I had was when some of us went to Norway. The first time I was there it was a all boys team made up of Turkish-Cypriots and Greek-Cypriots. We took part in the Norway Basketball Tournament and won the silver medal. The second time, it was a mixture of boys and girls from both sides of the island who went to help coach a basketball camp. It was just an amazing trip!
My favorite thing to do happens at the end of the year when we have a summer camp and some of the program members and
coaches go to the Argos mountains. We participate in a week program and also fun stuff like movie night, disco night, peace building, and story sharing. Another great thing is that every year PeacePlayers lets us meet coaches from America that were in the NBA or WNBA and we learn so much from them. They not only teach us basketball skills, but also some important life lessons!
The reason that I participate in this program and love it so much is because it helps me learn new things while playing my favorite sport. I have made so many new friends, Greek-Cypriots and Turkish-Cypriots, that I can call “brothers” and “sisters”. They have taught me so much about their countries and cultures. I even learned a little bit of their languages. One of the most important things I have learned is that every person is the same no matter where they are from. We are humans and we all need the same thing, which is love and respect from each other. So really, without PeacePlayers, I would be a different person. Special thanks to all the PeacePlayers International- Cyprus members and coaches!
My name is Will Massey and I am 21 years old from Iowa. I studied Physics and Religion at St. Olaf College in Minnesota. I love dogs, rock n’roll, and the Chicago cubs.
When I tell people in Belfast that I coach basketball in Ballymena on Wednesdays and Thursdays, they almost always say, “Och, I bet you have had a hard time with that Ballymena accent,” but to American ears a Belfast accent and a Ballymena accent are not so different especially when coming from a child’s mouth.
I came to Northern Ireland with the Young Adult Volunteer Program (YAV) of the Presbyterian
Church U.S.A. YAV sends volunteers all over the world to partner with local organizations engaged in missions. To my delight, I was placed with PeacePlayers, as well as the Whitehouse Presbyterian in Newtownabbey. Four other YAVs are serving in Belfast this year with other congregations and community programs. Reconciliation is one of the key goals of the church, as articulated by the Presbyterian Mission Agency. Peace Players is committed to this ministry, and how they operate really impresses me.
In Ballymena, I coach three twinning sessions, which excites me, although it strains my voice and my patience. At 9-years-old I may have been just as eager to learn basketball as these children, although it is hard to imagine. Our challenges as coaches are to direct this energy towards learning basketball skills and community relations activities, which ask kids to think critically about identity and prejudice. Coming in as an outsider, I am counting on PeacePlayers to provide me with the right questions to ask, and on the kids to be honest in answering. The answers I get are often encouraging and I like to ask my fellow coaches about the responses I get from the kids on the drive home. I am learning a lot through my partnership with PeacePlayers. I hope that I am making a positive contribution to the PeacePlayers mission in Northern Ireland by coaching, playing, and educating.
Aside from my work at PeacePlayers, I spend a great deal of my time with the various ministries of the Whitehouse Presbyterian Church, including Boys’ Brigade, Girls’ Brigade, Youth Fellowship, and 50+ lunch club.
My PPI-NI experience is more than just about a t-shirt, it is about the impact that I can make in children’s lives.
We would like to thank Rev. Doug Baker, who is the Regional Liaison for the Presbyterian Church of USA in Ireland and the United Kingdom. He coordinates the YAV placements in NI and has been responsible for inviting PPI-NI to formally host Will. We previously had a informal relationship with the YAV programme. We met with the group and gave briefings on the works of PPI-NI and we also had another YAV, Patrick Harley, volunteer with us two years ago.
Picture this, you have four hours a week to work with fifteen kids. Each kid has it rough; poor socioeconomic backgrounds, their saintly teachers are overloaded with class sizes and work, and their parents (if present) are fighting an uphill battle between finding work and navigating the complex world of adolescence. So we have four hours to combat twelve years of disadvantages. What do you focus on to give them the best possible chance? Catherine Woulfe, who writes for The Listener delivered a pretty compelling answer in her recent article ‘The age of opportunity’: The exciting discovery of the plasticity of adolescent brains reveals a make-or-break chance to create a happier, healthier and more successful adult. She essentially summarizes the ground breaking work of leading developmental psychologist and Temple University Professor Laurence Steinberg.
When it comes to impacting kids’ lives, the rule is, the earlier the better. If you read to your child between the ages of 0-3, that will have a much more profound effect on the child’s education than if that was done later in life. In general, that applies to all experiences. As Woulfe puts it “between the ages of zero to three, our brains are exquisitely sensitive to experience. What happens to us during that time has a profound lifetime effect.” It’s widely known that children who experience abuse at a young age will have a permanent echo of that experience throughout their life. As Dr. Dipesh Navsaria of the University of Wisconsin puts it “If we get the first 1,000 days of a baby’s life right, we’re really going to save a lot of trouble later on.”
As much as Steinberg agrees with this, his research also shows that when children hit adolescence, a similar opportunity arises to deeply impact their futures. With over 40 years of studying tens of thousands of adolescents, Steinberg has developed a new model that suggests adolescence is also a time where the brain is significantly shaped by experiences. If you think of the brain as clay and the hands that shape the clay as the environment, adolescence is the time that the clay is ripe for molding (if you want to know more about the neuroscience behind it, read Woulfe’s article or google neuroplasticity). How the brain will be molded at the end of adolescence is a good indicator on the shape it will stay in.
So what needs to happen in order to mold these flexible brains into happy, intelligent, and creative forms? The answer is exceptionally complex and requires master craftspeople from all angles – parents, teachers, learning specialists, and etc. Experts such as Steinberg have been able to flesh out the dominant features in order to give some very clear answers as to where to focus. Steinberg’s research reveals that mastering self-control, or in more colloquial terms, “their capacity for self-regulation” is the largest predictor of one’s future success.
The capacity for self-regulation is probably the single most important contributor to achievement, mental health and social success. In study after study of adolescents, and in samples of young people ranging from privileged suburban youth to destitute inner city teenagers, those who score high on measures of self-regulation invariably fare best… This makes developing self-regulation the central task of adolescence and the goal that we should be pursuing.
To illustrate this, Steinberg often references a famous study conducted in New Zealand that measured the self control of one thousand children at age three. The researchers followed the individuals for forty years and self control at the age of three strongly predicted their levels of health, wealth, and happiness regardless of socioeconomic background.
Remember that marshmallow test that went viral with those cute kids that were told they can have one
treat now or two in ten minutes when the adult gets back?
Guess what, the kids that showed self control are much more likely to be happier later in life and although the ones that smashed the marshmallow may have been super cute, intervention was definitely good advice.
So how do you teach an adolescence self control?
Steinberg states, “the most important environmental contributor to self-regulation is the family.” The people who predominantly shape the environment of the youth are their parents. “Parents practice authoritative parenting. Be warm, be firm, and be supportive.”
Research has also shown that Autocratic parents (ones that rule with iron fists) teach obedience. “There’s no evidence that it’s good for kids. In fact, there’s a lot of evidence that it’s not good for kids.” Permissive parents (ones that get walked over or “just want to see their children happy”) tend to raise children that have little understanding of boundaries.
You’re probably thinking, that’s great but how the heck does that help an organization like PeacePlayers International? People often over simplify it by saying “these kids are missing life skill x, y and z” or “teachers are not being held accountable.” When you try and change the course of someone’s life, you’re fighting years and years of poor development. That’s massively difficult to address with a few hours a week of coaching basketball Or even six hours a day of classroom time.
You can definitely provide a strong mentor/support figure in the form of a coach. Especially, if the coach has a
strong understanding of principles such as how to enforce self-control. If the coach is really good they can even create drills that are microcosms of self-control. It’s beautiful watching a coach warmly, but firmly, explain to a player why taking that 3 pointer 5 seconds into the shot clock showed poor self-control:
“It was an ambitious shot, but you could have used a lot more self-control. That’s what’s truly valuable. Think about the other options you had. Sam in the corner had an open 15 footer. The point guard was right behind you and could have organized the team. Did they have a higher chance of creating a better shot for the team?”
Social change is HARD and it requires a reshaping of a youth’s environment that is guided by reason and research. Basketball may not be able to change the whole environment, but for four hours a week, it does make a difference.
Communications and Development Intern Lauren Rogers reflects on her time with PeacePlayers and tells how the organization has impacted her life.
I have to work there!
That was my first thought as I left my interview last spring for an internship position at PeacePlayers International. Fortunately, several days later, I got a call offering me the job.
These past five months working with PPI have been incredible. As a student of Conflict Resolution at Georgetown University, I was drawn to PeacePlayers because of its creative use of sport in areas of conflict and post-conflict. The organization is completely innovative, even boasting its own unique curriculum for participants and working with other organizations across the globe through PPI-SPIN.
I began in May as a Communications and Development Intern. My responsibilities included, but were not limited to, increasing our social media presence, drafting and editing grant proposals, and working on communications pieces. I loved coming into the office to hear people talking about the basketball game last night or arguing over which star baseball player is better. I loved the camaraderie between staff members, whether it was those located in our office in Washington, D.C. or thousands of miles away in Northern Ireland, Cyprus, South Africa, and the Middle East. I loved getting to know participants of the program through videos, pictures, and blog posts. I also loved being a part of an organization that was making a visible difference, and everyone was proud of the work they accomplish. Towards the end of the summer, I was asked to stay on with PPI for a couple more months to help out with the ECA exchange funded by a grant from the U.S. State Department. I overwhelmingly accepted, as I knew I was not yet ready to leave this awesome place.
I’ve spent the past couple months working as the ECA Project Coordinator, which was a challenging but extremely fulfilling position. We planned a two-week trip to the United States for nearly 30 of our Middle East Leadership Development Program participants. The exchange involved meeting with PPI supporters, playing basketball, experiencing a new culture, and so much more. After reading and posting blogs about these wonderful young leaders throughout the summer, as well as hearing stories from fellow staff members, it was a privilege to finally meet them in person when they first arrived in D.C. in early October. While I had fun accompanying them around the city, going on tours and meeting new people, the most rewarding experience was simply talking to them. Hearing firsthand accounts about how their membership with PeacePlayers changed their parents’ and friends’ perceptions of “the other side,” how experiences with PeacePlayers have shaped their future career paths, and how friendships developed through PeacePlayers helped them stay strong this past summer during countless waves of violence…it was something I will never forget.
I learned so much through my time at PeacePlayers, such as new computer skills, how to become a better writer, and the ins and outs of working at an international non-profit. I gained an incredible amount of knowledge from the people I worked alongside these past five months, who go far above and beyond what their job titles entail. Their passion for this work and belief in the mission of PPI is evident through their actions; every day I came into the office, I was motivated by their hard work ethic and love for the job. While I am sad to be leaving PeacePlayers in this capacity, I know I will stay in touch and keep up with the continuing success of the programs. As I’ve heard from many, “Once a member of the PPI family, always a member of the PPI family.”
I want to say thank you to the PPI staff for providing me this opportunity and helping me along the way. Thank you to my friends and family for their support not just of me, but also of the organization. Most of all, thank you to the participants of PeacePlayers International who continue to transform their communities and inspire us all through their unwavering enthusiasm, bravery, and dedication.
It was all about Hoops and Suits as PPI-NI attended the Study USA 20th Anniversary Gala Dinner and the One Young World Summit!
Last Friday morning, PPI-NI Business Development Officer Keith Mitchel along with PPI-NI assistant project coordinators Laura Agnew, and Ryan Stewart, hot-tailed it to Dublin to facilitate a break out session at the One Young World Summit. The annual event held at Emerald Isle, attracted over 1,400 people from ages 18-30 from 190 countries. At this event delegates heard from a wide range of leaders from around the world. PPI-NI helped to deliver a breakout session entitled “The Sporting Life – Breaking Down Barriers”, which took place at Na Fianna GAA Club in North Dublin. The team showcased PPI-NI’s community relations through sport curricula to a large group of summit delegates. A “fourth half” session facilitated by PPI-NI was complimented by sports instruction (hurling and soccer) provided by the Gaelic Athletic Association (GAA) and the Football Association of Ireland (FAI). Keith, Ryan and Laura did a great job in encouraging delegates to explore stereotypes and prejudice through a sporting lens by engaging them in our “Not On My Team” exercise.
In the evening, PPI-NI Chairman Trevor Ringland and Managing Director Gareth Harper got suited and booted to attend the Study USA 20th Anniversary Dinner. The Study USA alumni team has chosen PPI-NI as its partner charity for 2014/15. The event held at Titanic Belfast, was attended by over 200 guests including Dr. Stephen Farry (MLA, Minister for Employment and Learning) and representatives from the US Consulate, British Council, stakeholders from US and NI colleges, programme alumni and this year’s Study USA graduating class. PPI-NI coaches were on hand to support fundraising efforts as they ran the “Hoops in the Hall” basketball challenge. Tuxedos, evening gowns and heels didn’t interfere too much with the competitors’ jump shots..! The prizes all had an American theme and the main raffle prize of the night was a pair of round trip tickets to London to see the NFL at Wembley, which was sponsored by Oasis Travel in Lisburn. Prizes for the basketball competition run by PPI-NI were donated by PRM Group Lisburn, Belfast Harley Davidson and local restaurants, Tony Romas, Spurs, Nandos and Boojum. PPI-NI would like to thank all contributors for their kind donations.
As a result of fundraising, the Study USA alumni were able to present PPI-NI with a cheque for £1050. PPI-NI would like to thank the Study USA Alumni Association, in the first instance for selecting PPI-NI as the Association’s charity of choice for 2014/15, for their fundraising efforts to date, and for inviting us to be a part of the 20th Anniversary Dinner celebrations.
Congratulations to the Study USA alumni on an excellent event.
This week we interviewed PeacePlayer International Cyprus’s new Turkish-Cypriot Coordinator, Sureyya Deger! She joined the team last week and has already become an integral part of the team. Below she answers some questions about her first week in the office and a little bit of background about herself.
What drew you to PeacePlayers?
Well, at one point in your life you stop and look at what you are doing. I realized that I wasn’t at the right place, and I was seeking something more. I was looking for a new career in CSOs, as I have been a civil society and peace activist for more than 10 years now. Anyway, I was looking for a job and now I am doing what I believe in and serving for peace.
What was your first week like in this new work environment?
I was trying to understand everything, like who is responsible for what. When you apply for a job, you just
have a general idea of the organization, as I had for PeacePlayers. I was trying to fit in and find myself in the organization, luckily the atmosphere and the team members really helped me feel at home. I am glad to be part of such a dedicated team.
What is your vision for PeacePlayers as you begin your position as Turkish-Cypriot Coordinator?
I hope that my position will affect the organization in a lot of ways. I will try to bring my effectiveness and connections to PeacePlayers, but I also hope that I will help with the coordination with the Turkish-Cypriot community.
What is your favorite part of PPI-Cyprus so far?
Hmmm… To be honest, the family and work friendly environment. I dislike a work place when you have no “work”and you just sit there and wait for the end of the day. Mostly, I am very productive during the nights when I am comfortable, and my son is asleep. PeacePlayers gives me that flexibility. I really don’t know how, but I can sit there and work for hours without noticing the time. I am so glad that PeacePlayers has this atmosphere and flexibility.
PPI – Middle East’s 24 Palestinian and Israeli youth leaders have just returned from their action-packed two weeks in the United States. We are excited to have our players back and to be able to share some of their highlights from the trip.
The goal of the trip was to broaden the participants’ view of the American culture, provide them the opportunities to improve their basketball skills and leadership capacity, and give them the chance to share what they have learned with the rest of us at PPI. The young leaders were afforded the chance to speak to community leaders, sports executives, and politicians. Throughout their trip – whether kicking back on a farm or playing basketball at the White House with National Security Adviser Susan Rice, the young leaders inspired the people they met.
On their visit to the States, the youth got first-hand experiences with American culture and also
showcased the importance of sports in America. “People love playing sports of any kind,” said Mussa, a member of PPI since 2008. One of the sports that Mussa is talking about is baseball. During the trip, the youth had their first experience with baseball, a classic American pastime that is largely unknown in the Middle East, as they volunteered with the National Youth Baseball Academy.
While they experienced many American trends and traditions, Neta, a member of PPI since 2010, noticed the similarities both cultures shared. “We are not that different culturally.” Yet, for her and many others on the trip they noticed how their environments at home impacts their life. “We have different issues and problems in our daily lives because of the conflict,” says Neta.
Traveling sometimes puts things into prospective for us. This definitely happened on the exchange. The young leaders realized how special and rare their work is with PPI. Going to the White House to met Susan Rice as she hosted them for a basketball game showed them the value of their work. “It was an experience of a lifetime to meet such an important person. Most Americans don’t get to play basketball at the White House,” says Mussa.
Even though, for Neta, participating in PPI is a normal part of her schedule, going to the White House, meeting politicians and community leaders helped her understand how big and important her role is in PPI. Susan Rice was impressed and inspired by the young leaders’ involvement with PPI. Witnessing the close friendships and teamwork on the court highlighted the similarities of hopes and aspirations of young people across the globe. Seeing the PPI members on the basketball court demonstrated “that a solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict is possible, and within reach.”
Thank you to SportsUnited of the United Department of State, Bureau of Education and Cultural Affairs, for making this once-in-a-lifetime experience possible.